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How to Approach and Treat Non-Muslim Neighbors

Submitted by roemasa on Thu, 07/31/2008 - 17:46

neighbor The neighbor holds a special status in Islam. Islam encourages Muslims to treat their neighbors in a gentle way that reflects the true and genuine spirit of Islam as exemplified in its tolerant aspect especially with people of other faiths. It makes no difference whether the neighbors are Muslim or non-Muslim. Further, a Muslim must be good to his neighbors, no matter their religion.

Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said, "The best companion in Allah's estimation is the one who is best to his companion, and the best neighbour in Allah's estimation is the one who is best to his neighbour." Tirmidhi and Darimi transmitted it.

Below are ten tips on how to approach your non-Muslim neighbors in a kind way that exemplifies Islamic manners:

Suami Istri Merangsang Secara Oral menurut Islam

Submitted by roemasa on Thu, 07/31/2008 - 10:47

sexPertanyaan:

Bolehkah pasangan suami istri saling memberikan kepuasan satu sama lain dengan melakukan rangsangan secara oral?

Jawaban:

Pendapat Sheikh Ahmad Kutty:

Tidak ada didalam Islam yang dikategorikan dilarang hukumnya bagi pasangan yang sudah menikah melakukan oral pada pasangannya guna memberikan kenikmatan atau kepuasan, jika itu berdasarkan keinginan bersama. Namun yang masih diperdebatkan adalah jika ketika mengoral keluar cairan semen atau cairan kewanitaan karena menurut Imam Abu Hanifah cairan semen atau cairan kewanitaan termasuk najis.

Oral Stimulation Between Husband and Wife in Islam

Submitted by roemasa on Fri, 07/25/2008 - 16:15

sexQuestion:

Can a married couple gratify each other through oral stimulation?

Answer:

Sheikh Ahmad Kutty opinion:

There is nothing in Islam that categorically forbids married couples from gratifying each other through oral stimulation, if it is based on consensual agreement. However, one objection that could be raised is whether the act involves consuming semen or female fluids, since they are considered najas (impure) according to Imam Abu Hanifah.

10 Tips untuk Menjadi Suami yang Sukses

Submitted by roemasa on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 10:53

muslimfamily 1. Tampil rapih, bersih dan wangilah untuk istri anda. Kapan terakhir kali kita para suami pergi berbelanja baju yang bagus? Seperti halnya para suami yang ingin istrinya tampil cantik untuknya maka para istri pun sama yaitu ingin suaminya tampil tampan untuk mereka. Ingatlah bahwa Nabi Muhammad SAW selalu menggunakan siwak jika pulang ke rumah dan beliau menyukai wangi-wangian.

2. Gunakan nama panggilan kesayangan khusus untuk istri anda. Nabi Muhammad SAW memberi nama kesayangan untuk istri-istrinya. Gunakan panggilan kesayangan untuk istri anda yang ia sukai dan jangan menggunakan nama panggilan yang bisa melukai perasaannya.

10 Tips How to be a Successful Husband

Submitted by roemasa on Fri, 07/11/2008 - 18:35

muslimfamily 1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good for her. When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Prophet Muhammad - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.