Islam

Question:

Why there is so much fear from God? We should love the God not be scared from him.


Answer:

You are right in saying that we must love God, but at the same time it is wrong to suggest that love of God excludes fear of Him. For while are to love God unconditionally, we must also be afraid of incurring His wrath. This is because of the fact that just as God, the Most Exalted and Glorious, is the Compassionate and Merciful, He is also the Just, and Stern in punishment.

Rumah tangga adalah masyarakat yang terkecil dan dimana semuanya berawal. Rumah tangga yang baik akan menciptakan kondisi masyarakat yang baik pula. Namun untuk menciptakan rumah tangga yang baik dan kondusif berlandaskan Islam seringkali kita menemukan banyak rintangan, ujian dan cobaan.

E-book yang berisikan 40 nasehat memperbaiki rumah tangga karya Syaikh Muhammad Shalih Al-Munajjid ini mencakup nasehat-nasehat dalam memperbaiki rumah tangga. Salah satu nasehatnya yaitu: pendidikan keimanan untuk anggota keluarga.
Dari Aisyah RA ia berkata: Suatu ketika Rasullah SAW, mengerjakan shalat malam, ketika akan witir beliau mengatakan: "Bangunlah, dan dirikanlah shalat witir wahai Aisyah!". "Allah mengasihi laki-laki yang bangun malam kemudian shalat lalu membangunkan isterinya sehingga shalat, jika tidak mau ia memerciki wajahnya dengan air". Hadits riwayat Muslim, Shahih Muslim bi Syarh An-Nawawi, 6/23.

Intercourse between husband and wife is one kind of 'Ibadat in Islam. Husband and wife must enjoy each others while they have intercourse.

Below are few tips to make your wife happy during intercourse:

1. It is obligatory to do it habitually if you have no excuse (sickness, etc.)

2. Start with "Bismillah" and the authentic du'a.

Bismillâhi allâhumma jannibnash-shaytana wa jannibi shaytâna ma razaqtana.

Sebagian dari kita tentu sudah pernah mengenal DR. Yusuf Qardhawi melalui tulisan-tulisan beliau. Beliau dikenal sebagai seorang ulama yang berilmu dan berwawasan luas serta cukup dikenal sebagai ulama yang 'moderat'. Sebagian kalangan juga ada yang menganggap DR. Yusuf Qardhawi sebagai ulama yang 'keras' dan ada juga sebagian lagi yang menganggap beliau sebagai ulama yang 'lunak'.

Bagaimana pandangan beliau tentang masalah Sunnah dan Bid'ah?

E-book ini akan mengungkapkan pandangan beliau tentang makna Sunnah dan Bid'ah. Masalah pemahaman Sunnah dan Bid'ah sepertinya selalu menjadi bahan perdebatan di kalangan umat Islam, setiap kubu membuat definisi-definisi tersendiri tentang Sunnah dan Bid'ah dan DR. Yusuf Qardhawi melalui bukunya mencoba mendefinisikan ulang makna Sunnah dan Bid'ah yang tentu saja berdasarkan pandangan dan keluasan ilmu yang dia miliki.

Six days fasting in Shawwal is a recommended fasting and every Muslim should observe the fasting to get a reward from Allah. But for someone who missed several days in Ramadan fasting then they must make up for it, usually they do this in Shawwal month.

People often asking if someone has a fast of Ramadan to makeup, can he make it up on six days of Shawwal with two intentions (niyyah); to get the reward of fasting six days of Shawwal and making up his missed fasts of Ramadan?

After fasting for 30 days in Ramadan, Muslim then celebrate Eid ul-Fitr. Its on first day of the month of Shawwal.

In Shawwal month there is a recommended fasting that we can observe.

Abu Ayyub Al-Ansaree (Allah be pleased with him) narated that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace be upon him, his family, and companions) said,

“Whoever fasts Ramadan and follows it with six days from Shawwal it is as if they fasted the entire year.”
[Muslim, Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi, and Ibn Majah]

Question:
What is the du'a (supplication) one should say when they get married?

Answer:
Marriage is a great moment in one’s life. It is, therefore, important for the couple to turn to Allah in humble supplication in this crucial juncture of their life in order to receive His blessings; only thus they can hope to make their union a source of bliss for them as well as a great provision for their journey to Allah. Turning to Allah at every step of marriage is therefore the key to a blissful marital life: At the time of marriage contract those who solemnize marriage may offer the following supplication:

Allaahumma bariklahumaa wa ijma’ baynahumaa fee khayrin

(O Allah, bless them in their union and unite them on all that is good and beneficial).