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Wanita menjadi ragu setelah hubungan 5 tahun

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Assalamualaikum wr.wb

Sy seorang laki2 umur 25, sy sudah berhubungn lama dengan seorang perempuan A yang umurnya tidak bgt jauh dgn sy. kita berkenalan saat kuliah, susah senang menjalani kuliah bersama-sama. Sampai akhirnya kt sampai skarang ini masing-masing punya kesibukan bekerja. sy awalny tdk ada rencana untuk menikah cepat dgn alasan klwarga dan materi. sampai akhrnya orang tua perempuan meminta agar cpt2 mnkah. Memang dari dl perempuan A ini kadang melempar pertanyaan kapan utk mnkah krna perempuan mungkin memang kodratnya sprti itu,jadi menunggu2 dilamar oleh sy. Sampai akhirnya waktu rencana nkh sdh dkt, timbul masalah ternyata dia msh ragu dgn saya. Memang slama ini hbngan kita kadang terjadi perselisihan kecil tp stlh itu rukun lg. Sampai akhirnya perempuan A karna sdh tidak kuat menahan mungkin batinnya tidak kuat menahan apa yang dialaminya slm berhbngan. Sy sdh meminta maaf dan dimaafkan tp dalam hatinya skrng jd ragu utk menikah dgn sy. Yg sy tanyakan, sy sdh istikharah, namun dalam hati sy slalu ingin brsama dia, berdoa pun agar dia memang jodoh sy.Tp sampai skrng pun ttp ragu. Jadinya sy pun ikut ragu..Apakah memang perempuan A ini jodoh sy?smntra setiap sy tanya dia bgtu syng sm sy, tp batinnya ttp bicara ragu. Apa yg hrs sy lakukan skrng,apakh sy hrus ttp mempertahankan hubungan ini atau memng kehendak-Nya bicara lain..Terima kasih apabila bs ditanggapi.

Wassalamualaikum wr.wb

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Wa'alaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Masalah jodoh adalah rahasia Allah. Kita tidak akan pernah tahu siapa pasangan kita sampai nanti selesai akad nikah :D. Jika memang Anda merasa si perempuan itu tepat maka terus saja lanjutkan sambil perlahan-lahan mulai meyakinkan dia kembali sehingga lambat laun mudah-mudahan si A menjadi tidak ragu dengan Anda.

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