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mohon saran

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mohon sarannya ,saya laki2 usia 25 bingung dg menentukan pilihan ustad,saya punya 2 calon yang keduanya sangat berat menurut saya ustad!yang pertama saya sudah lumayan lama pacaran dg seorang wanita cina dan sangat baik dan beda agama tetapi dia sanggup ikut saya jd mualaf,tetapi baru2 ini datang seorang wanita yang soleha kepada saya.trma ksih ustad

Re:
Akan ada banyak pertimbangan diantara 2 perempuan yang Anda sebutkan.
Dengan perempuan keturunan Cina keuntungannya Anda sudah mengenal pribadi dia seperti apa dan dia mau menjadi mualaf yang artinya dia harus meninggalkan keyakinan lama dia dan keyakinan keluarga besarnya. Tantangan ke depannya nanti mungkin akan berhubungan dengan keluarga besar dia yang berbeda keyakinan. Jika Anda merasa sudah siap dengan hal tersebut, maka silahkan.
Dengan satu perempuan lagi keuntungannya dia masih satu keyakinan dengan Anda, hanya saja mungkin Anda belum begitu mengenal pribadi dia dengan baik seperti halnya Anda mengenal pribadi teman perempuan Anda yang keturunan Cina.
Seandainya si perempuan keturunan Cina ini sudah mau menjadi mualaf, maka mantapkanlah niat Anda untuk dekat dengannya. Siapa tahu Anda akan memeroleh beberapa kebaikan sekaligus, yaitu dengan membantu dia menjadi pemeluk Islam, membantu dia memelajari tentang Islam serta kelak dia dapat menjadi istri yang shalehah. Wallahu a'lam.

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